Our Growing Family
Friday, November 23, 2012
Working On It
I am so sorry I have not gotten a post up lately, as I am sure you can guess things here have been crazy with the coming home, getting settled and all not to mention the one Holiday under our belts and the next one right around the corner. Believe it or not I think I might be done doing the little bit of Christmas shopping that we will do this year. If I am not done I am close. Please don't consider this an update as I will get one up soon with pics I promise I just can not give a good date right now. By the way I am very curious.....with just the 2 followers and only 1 comment can someone please tell me where you all are on here in a comment or on FB and let me know who knittin' momma is???
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Pictures from China
Hi everyone, I am posting for Annette. Sorry for this link but I am having a difficult time getting these pictures to post like the previous slide show. Just click on the link and it will take you to the latest pictures from China! I am so excited that they will be home in less than 24 hours! Whoever makes it to the airport give that little guy a big hug from me!
Chrissy
Chrissy
Tuesday, Nov 13
Hello everyone!
Sunday came and went.
Rain never showed just a cloudy and wonderfully cool day for the
park. Due to Joshua being on sensory
overload and being cranky and Mikayla just being herself and knowing how
service at church would have went we opted to decline. Greg and Mikayla did head to Sha Mian Island
and shopped really good. They bought
Marble stamps one for Joshua and one for Mikayla that has their names in
English and Chinese on them that has a little animal craved on top, it came
with an ink pad in a ceramic case and is kept in a Chinese decorative box. While Joshua napped for 3 hours and became a
happy boy again he got from Daddy and Mikayla what he loves the
most…shoes. We now have 4 pairs of the
cutest leather squeaky shoes for Joshua.
I got something I will love sporting in the states which is a Guangzhou
Starbucks Tee. Does Hubby know me or
what? Later that day we did do our Visa
paperwork so Joshua can get home with us.
Yesterday we ventured to Yue Xiu Park where there was a very
large statue of 5 goats which was made of 30 marble bricks all 29 are original
bricks except one which was one of the Largest Goats Horns which broke during the
Tsunami. The Goat represents Guangzhou
and I can’t remember much else about it but I do know there is also a new
lightening rod in the park you can see behind the goat statue in the pic that
was put there after the Lightening from the Tsunami broke the goats horn. After going up the 99 (yes a multiple of 9)
stairs to see this statue and then walk down to see some other fascinating
carvings and such at the park we headed to the Local Pedestrian street and the
Pearl and Jade Market. This time I got
to not only stay the entire day of adventures I also got to shop for some cool
Jade. Mikayla and I got us a matching
Jade heart. The hearts are identical to
the naked untrained eye but mine of course is almost 3x the quality and
unfortunately price. Still on the run
we had a wonderfully colorful Pearl River Cruise with dinner. The food was good, trying to get to it
(buffet) was a fun adventure in it self but most important was the cruise and
the views…I have included a few for you.
The views we saw were many and most had LED lights that changed colors
constantly that pictures just can’t show you.
Today we did the documents and took the oath in the ACS, we
took also took our group pictures. We
did have an option for a dumpling lunch, once again due to tired children we
opted out. We walked around our
wonderful Garden Hotel and took some pictures that does not do this place
justice. We are currently relaxing until
we decide where we might eat dinner for our last night here. Tomorrow afternoon we get our sons visa and
passport and take the express train to Hong Kong. This will be the beginning of
our journey home. So I probably won’t
post again until we are home and settled back in so check back often. For anyone who might be interested in a sneak
peak of Joshua before we get home and hibernate for a while we arrive on
November 15th United 4:13pm from Chicago flight #3650.
Arriving Guangzhou
Saturday, Nov 10
Today was a tiring one arriving Guangzhou hotel at about
midnight and getting settled and to bed at about 1am getting up at 7am to go to
our Medical and then do some sightseeing.
Naps for just the kids (yes I had to tell you that) came about 1pm and
Joshua is just now waking at 3:15pm.
Joshua was awesome in our journey to get his passport, going to the
Pharmacy, getting to the airport sitting for 3 or so hours there even before
getting on the plane then a 2 hour flight considering we were all on lack of sleep. Mikayla also did well but complained a bit
about she was hungry, thirsty, tired of walking, tired of sitting tired of
waiting, etc. In getting Joshua’s
passport was interesting as the office started work at 3pm and you are not
allowed in and so you call and they tell you to wait…you wait in your car or
standing out on the street. You never
know if you are going to stand there for 5 minutes or 5 hours. The last family our guide had got there at
3pm and waited until 6:30pm. I have to
thank you all for all your prayers they are working well. God is hearing your prayers and helping us
glide through; my illness is more annoying then disabling so I am getting along
well and only missed the one adventure and have been doing well otherwise, our
son is doing great and getting along and attaching well, all travels have been
smooth up to this point. Our sons
passport? We arrived about 3:15pm left
to head to the airport at record time of about 3:20pm a total 5 minute
wait. Then of course our flight here where
everyone was so tired and yet no one killed anyone and no one screamed bloody
murder or any such thing the worst thing that happened was what I thought to be
a diaper malfunction on the plane. I say
this because just before take off Joshua and I got soaked….He peed all over me
and him (I had him in the carrier on me) so we sat for about 3 hours that way
before I was where I can change him. At
this point I found not a diaper malfunction but just a very wet diaper I guess
he just let it all out on the plane. Of
course you might say this a misfortune but to me a blessing. A Blessing you say? Yes a blessing as it was
only pee and could have been so much worse.
Thank you God for hearing our prayers.
Once arriving and looking for our guide and heading for the van we came
to a door that would not open (a lot of motion sensors around here) and all of
a sudden it worked…we laughed and even our guide said we must have a higher
power working with us. Thank you all for
all your prayers keep them going as we are not home yet and out of the woods
called China.
Today we did the Medical and Joshua did well and had no
issues. We then went to Flower City
Square which was so beautiful with all the gorgeous flowers and roses in all
colors while our guide told us about the buildings and their nature and
history. In about 2 hours we will be
going to eat at what is one of the best Cantonese places according to our
guide. In the meantime we ate some
McDonalds that was easy access and I stopped at Starbucks…ok God why did you
not teach them how to make a Chai Tea Latte in China??? Tomorrow we go to Church here in China
imagine that…God thanks for being everywhere.
After Church which will be in 3 languages Cantonese, Mandarin and
English we will head out to shop at Sha Mian Island. Squeaky Shoes here we come. Not sure what else is on the shopping list
but I am sure it will all be good. The
hotel here is a 5 Star Hotel with awesome sites right inside and the rooms are
like small apartments with digital television and lots of amenities including
outdoor pool (rare for China) and playroom for the kids, Exercise room, Tea
Room, Piano Bar and so much more. This
includes a Spa for Massages, Hair Salon, Japanese Restaurant and an awesome
bakery/sweets counter and more. Love the
hotel and the area here. The Weather we
left was getting cooler in the lower 50’s and now we are currently in the mid
to upper 80’s. Hot but not too hot, no
where near the oven of Mikayla’s time.
Rain is expected for our future lets hope and pray our outdoor
festivities are not hindered being I am well enough to enjoy.
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Friday, November 9, 2012
In Zhangzhou
11/7/2012
We arrived in Zhangzhou without any issues. It was a very much needed relief. The weather we left was some slushy snow and
much smog now we are in nicer weather of mid to upper 50's and 60's and a
little less smog. Monday the 5th we
traveled a mere 15 minutes to where we finally met our son for the first
time. Last time we traveled about the
same but was our group of four families including us where this time we traveled
to the province alone to meet up with our guide. Although we traveled alone to our son's
province of Henan, City of Zhengzhou we had approximately seventeen families
from other agencies including us all at the same place at the same time in a
small room (approx 40x15). It was a very
loud emotional room. Joshua was handed
to me right away and for a short moment cried....I think more because all the
other kids were crying and he felt he should more so then because of how scary
I probably was to him. When I handed him
to Daddy it was the same brief bout of crying.
With Mikayla such an angel and a breeze being prepared for a demon seed
as I would say, Joshua did what I hoped and prayed, he proved my prediction wrong.
Mikayla was totally unattached willing to be with anyone in the
beginning where Joshua takes short moments to show an attachment to each of us
which shortens each time. Already in
just three short days he does not want to be with anyone other than us. He's a
happy little boy, a ham, who loves to laugh, run, play and is becoming quite
the momma's boy. He sleeps well and
sound, he goes down in his crib calmly and without a fuss. When he wakes he sings and plays by himself
while waiting for someone to get him. He
loves shoes, maybe he'll be a shoe salesman, I hope not but he does have a
thing for shoes. He loves his stacking
cups just as Mikayla still does hers and he is definitely a deep down big belly
jolly little guy, he loves belly tickles so much he asks for them ....he lays
down and points to his belly. All worked
well on clothes sizes too. Twelve
months are perfect where 18 months are a bit long in the arm and leg still work
also. We brought mostly 12 months so we
did well.
The adoption process this time is also a bit different. We signed papers quickly there right when we
got him we also did the fingerprinting and such all that same day. Right after getting him was our shopping
journey for diapers and the like. The
very next day at 9 am we finalized the process with a less ceremonial process
then last time since most everything was done except to get the official papers
and take the official family picture which took all of maybe 2 minutes. Also the same morning we also headed to the Notary
on the 3rd floor up 6 flights of stairs with a new infant in tow and a 4 year
old not quite sure of many steps yet along with not so in shape parents...the
gym visits helped I am sure. Later the
same day without a break back to the hotel we set out for a 2 1/2 hour drive
with both kids squashed up in a van.
This journey was better than could be expected but definitely not
fun. All for a trip to McDonalds that
lasted about 2 hours since we had time to waste (they did have a play area for
Mikayla, Joshua just enjoyed being in the fishbowl and pretending he was
outside of it)*. After the long lunch we
applied for Joshua's Passport which took all of maybe 15 minutes if that. Then back in the van for another long 2 1/2
hour journey back to the hotel arriving back to our room approximately 6:30 pm
giving us a running day of approx. 9 1/2 hours.
This day, today, is a FREE day a much needed one not just to recover
from all the running the day before but to hopefully recover more from what
started out as a very dry nose in Beijing to what I think has turned into a
major sinus infection which as of today has left me speechless....ha me
speechless ....no just without a voice.
I just hope and pray no one else shares it with me and also that I
recover a bit before Friday and our next flight.
Now at about 9 pm our room I think is trying to kill us....the room is
hotter than.... well you know. So here I
sit at 10:30 everyone asleep but me and I saw some hotel workers across the
hall and asked them to help but to shhhh (this is the 3rd attempt
since here already without resolve). They came and did whatever which I think
will work as the room did drop one degree in the last 30 min...heat wave. Ok, I was wrong the temp went up another 2
degrees now more visitors....grrrr. Ok
here's what the final outcome is for this craziness....it's China and for China
it is winter after all so all rooms are heated and there is no air
conditioner. We started out at 69.8
degrees which was great (they go by Celsius my reason for the odd degree) then
all of a sudden now we are at 78.8. I am
going to roast. They say since winter
and no air we can turn off heat but we might get too cold when sleeping....ok
outside it is maybe 50's I don’t think we will freeze especially with down
comforters on each bed. So off with the
thermostat, open the window and room door for now and when I am done the door
will close and the window will remain open...so far I already feel much
better...hmm lets check the temp...it states we are back down to 69.8 but I
don’t feel like it is quite that cool.
Tomorrow we head out to the Henan Museum of History and I will let you
know how it all goes. I will also let
you know if we have penguins skating around our room when we return. Friday we should receive Joshua's Passport in
time to head out to our flight to our last leg of the journey in Guangzhou at
about 10 - 11 pm. Saturday in Guangzhou
in the AM we are to do his Medical.
Until then and for our entire journey all Prayers for wellness and safe
travels are totally accepted. Zài Jiàn
*When you’re an American in China with not just one child but two, and
not just two but with two and one being a so called special needs child and
Daddy is helping with childcare you will feel like you are in a Fish Bowl as
everyone not just walks by and stares but goes out of there way to get to look
at you. We laugh and when we see the
people coming our way with that look in their eyes we just say FISH BOWL. We did meet a Christian Chinese woman who was
quite friendly and I began to talk to her with Mikayla telling her Jesus is in
her heart. I found she was not just
looking at us as in a fish bowl but as family.
Being in China and a Chinese woman and topping it off with being a Christian
is rare to find she has adopted herself a boy.
She talked in length of his story and how God is bringing them
through. Her son only 4 has brain issues
and lung problems. They say he would
never move or talk or do very much. She
told me all this as we watch him and Mikayla play in the playground. He played like a normal little boy and says
one word MA…this is more than the woman ever dreamed possible and she keeps the
faith and prays God will continue to be with them and give him a Strong Body….I
left her there with smile on her face as I told her I pray many blessings for
her and her family but I think I was more blessed to have had the chance to
have the short but meaningful conversation with her and to have our guide there
to help translate our conversations to each other.
The journey to Joshua is here!
11/1/12
The journey to Joshua is here!
We arrived in Beijing on time and without a hitch. It was a very long flight with the last four
hours dragging on for much longer than the first twelve but all so much quicker
than the last hour. We eyed our Beijing
contact in the array of varies sizes and colors of signs quite quickly. In the very first conversation with Amy we
found our hotel reservations were changed and the Panda Phone (china rental
phone/cell phone for all of china journey) that we ordered was now sitting at
the wrong hotel. Our new hotel was also now further from the airport by one
hour IF no traffic jams but can be up to two hours (Amy's words). Turned out NO traffic jams and I don’t even
think it took an hour and the new accommodations were larger and Mikayla had
her own room and we actually had a living room and small dining area., Amy works near the original hotel so getting
our panda phone was also a non-issue. At
this point we had some issues but all were resolved and we are still ten times
better than last time with a night spent at the airport and no luggage for four
days.
Arriving at our room very tired and a bit hungry at about 6-7 pm
Central time sleep won the battle. Up at 5:30 am with a 6:30 am wake up call
expected just gave us all time to relax and take our time moving and getting
down to breakfast. This is the day to
begin our site-seeing journey....We headed out at 9 am (China time from here on
out unless noted) and became amazed by the Wonderful Temple of Heaven. Our group consisted of us and two other
families and our guide Tim, nine people in all.
Interesting as I write this is that the meaning that revolved around the
Temple of Heaven was the number nine, the three levels are reached by a set of
nine stairs each and the walk ways and rails are all multiplies of nine
depending on the level the number nine is repeated throughout, The three levels of the temple were created
with meaning starting at the lower level or ground level was Hell, the middle
was humans and the top Heaven, This
temple is also colored with meaning such as blue for the sky and Heaven. All things China have a meaning of some sort
so when you look at China know that everything you see and everything they do
has some kind of meaning. Watch how you
put your chopsticks or you can show death or move your hand in what you might
think is friendly can be a rude jester and be sure your clear in your words or
you might get something you don’t expect, like try asking for toilet paper and
see what you get....you might be surprised. :-)
Back to the Temple it was very interesting, very high and quite the
great distance in length as well as width.
We walked to the top (the length) but not the width or entire grounds
and yet so worth every second and every step.
We took a rickshaw ride and made our driver get a great work out but hey
we got ours too. We visited the home of
a gentleman (I forget if he was a general or what special title) which is built
in a square. The entrance to the home
was a large French type door leading into a patio area where each room has its
own door to enter from and there is no way to enter one room from the
other. The patio is where day time
socializing took place when the weather is nice. It was also where the fruit and vegetables
were grown along with other plants.
While we were there two men played a game of what looked like checkers
but I think was a game of chess as each piece had some sort of writing on it
and by the deep thinking they were involved in for every move. With time to spare on our adventure we
journeyed to the Sun Temple. This temple
was not as elaborate as the first but was just as interesting and had just as
much meaning. I have learned that at
least in China if you have seen one Temple you HAVE NOT seen them all.
After the Sun Temple we went to see the Acrobats of China. This is a show I have seen many times in many places but in China trust me it was so much more than what you see in the states.
After the Sun Temple we went to see the Acrobats of China. This is a show I have seen many times in many places but in China trust me it was so much more than what you see in the states.
This morning after much rest from all our walking we woke again this
time almost 2 hours before our wake up call.
We went down to breakfast and met the other family that arrived late
last night, We also found out the last
family to join us missed their flight and were going to try to make it here
later today. We all pray and hope they
do because if they can not make it here today they will have to wait for the
next adoption group to be schedule to come to China before then can journey to
there new family member....I so feel for them and hope they arrive soon.
The temperature is much cooler this time around and so much more
enjoyable but I think I am going to have to say that I do not do well traveling
abroad. As I once again did not feel up
to the second journey. Once again
missing the trip to the Great Wall. Greg
the trooper that he is traveled on carry with him my heavy heart. Mikayla my beautiful understanding daughter
promised to take care of Daddy and take many pictures for Mommy bringing tears
to my eyes. So with sadness I think of
them as they traveled to Tiamen Square, The Forbidden City and The Great Wall
not just without me but in the rain. The
last family’s prayers were answered and arrived in time to also do this tour.
They say we might get snow tonight....I hope not as we are to leave in the
early morning to go to our baby boys province.
Until then....Zài Jiàn
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